Why Doesn't My Mother Visit Me?

Dear Ruth,

My mother has been gone for two years. During the past few days, my siblings are getting visits from her but she doesn't come to me.

I used to see my mother's ghost at night, and during the day I would her voice telling how much she loved me. I wonder if my sister-in-law is seeing my mother now because she’s more spiritually evolved than I am. I’m jealous because she’s not with me. Why is she ignoring me?
Jealous

Dear Jealous,

My hunch is your mother was caring, loving woman. She goes where’s she’s needed. You don’t need her right now, but your siblings do. Your sister-in- law isn’t more spiritually evolved than you, just is more open to seeing her. You're blocking your mother from talking to you with your envy.

Ask your mother to come and she will.